Contary to what other people has been telling me, 11 minutes is not all about the big word – SEX. It may revolve around a girl who became a prostitute on her way of discovering her dreams. But it runs deeper than her profession. As I see it, this girl learned life in the process.
Here are some of the things I think are noteworthy words of Paulo in this book.
Sometimes, life is very mean. A person can spend days, weeks, months and years without feeling anything new. Then, when a door opens, a positive avalanche pours in. One moment, you have nothing, the next, you have more than you can cope with.
The most important experiences a man can have are those that take him to the limit – that is the only way we learn, because it requires all courage.
The fire that provoked by the spark soon burned out.
The universe only makes sense when we have someone to share things with.
Considering the way the world is, one happy day is a miracle.
‘I am two women. One wants to have all the joy, passion and adventure that life can give me. The other wants to be a slave to routine, to family life, to the things that can be planted and achieved.’
You awaken desire by not immediately handing over the object of that desire.
Because endings are always more difficult than beginning
The strongest love is the love that can demonstrate fragility
If you want to achieve your objectives, you have to be prepared for a daily dose of pain or discomfort. It’s unpleasant and demotivating, but in time you come to realize that its part of the process of feeling good. .
Sex has come to be used as some kind of drug; in order to escape reality, to forget about problems, to relax.
Two people who live together and love each other need to adjust the hands of their clocks, with patience and perseverance, games.
We don’t need theater to find suffering. Life offers us more than enough opportunities.
After all, we human beings, we are born full of guilt, we feel terrified when happiness becomes a real possibility; and we die wanting to punish everyone else because we feel impotent, ill-used and happy.