At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don’t keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That’s how we’re made. So you can waste your lives drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them.
More often than not, we are too afraid to go out of our comfort zones just because we are already aware of what’s out there, because you want to lessen the possibility of life surprising you. But then, by drawing the line and avoiding what’s unknown, you haven’t seen what ther opportunities is out there for you, what other skills and learning you can learn from what’s outside, what is beyond your reach.
If you just have enough courage to take 1 step out of your fence, then maybe, just maybe, life gets so, so much better.